Definition: Respect for or a favourable opinion of oneself.
Would you say you have self worth?
I wanted to talk about this for a while as I believe it is one of the most important topics to discuss with people of all ages. There are many people in the world who do not have a good opinion of themselves, who think they are not worth it. Too many! Here and now I just want to tell you that you are worth it and that there are people out there who love you and who care about you!
Low self-esteem can be caused by a variety of things, bullying being one of them. If you are a victim of bullying, please speak up!! It is important you tell someone and search for help. It is also important that you know it is not your fault, but the bullies one!
I know a lot of teenagers who hate their body, who feel like they don't fit in. Thoughts like 'I am not pretty enough' or 'I am fat' destroy their self esteem. I myself know how hard it can be to accept yourself, and I am still struggling at times. Because there will always be someone prettier or skinnier than you. However that does not mean they are worth more than you. Or maybe you are not one of the 'popular kids', who go to all the parties and get drunk. At the time you're in school this might be the most important thing, you'd feel like you are not worth it. I know exactly how you feel. You might think you're missing out on life. But just take a look at the people who are seen as cool. They all have their own stories. In the end, are they happier than you? Does it really make them content being invited to all those parties and getting incredibly drunk? Think about it.
One of the most important things we have to learn in life is to stop comparing ourselves to other people. We have to stop wanting to fit in and start being our unique selves! Every single person out there is good at something, has a talent or a passion which they can follow. If you're sitting there saying 'I can't think of anything', then start experimenting. Try out new stuff. Go to that dance class on a Wednesday afternoon, start campaigning for animal rights or try and bake a masterpiece. It takes a while to find something which you truly love, but it will be worth it! Because the key to self-esteem is being proud of oneself. Achieving something that you are passionate about can be the best feeling in the world. So don't fear trying out new things and connecting with people you have never met before. Other people can be so inspiring and uplifting, and through the internet you have a thousand possibilities to connect with people. The next time you see yourself in a mirror, think about one tiny little thing you like about yourself! I promise, it will make you feel better. Also try and write down one thing you are thankful for every single day. You can even use an app, e.g. Gratitude, for that. I have started using this app a while ago and even after a really shit day, where I came home and just wanted to bury myself in bed, I'd find one thing I was happy about. Even if it is just that lovely cup of tea you're mum made you. This will make you see the positives in things more and it will lead you to seeing the positive things in yourself. I truly believe that every single person on this earth is here for a reason.
Make it count!
Websites that might help you:
Low self esteem: http://www.get.gg/esteem.htm
Being bullied: http://www.bullying.co.uk/
Suicide help: http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
=> http://www.samaritans.org/
Sunday, 30 November 2014
Friday, 28 November 2014
Anti-bucket list
I saw this idea on http://fatmumslim.com.au and immediately loved it! Its so different to what I usually do and I think it sounds really fun. It's not meant to spread negativity or offend anyone so please don't take it seriously :)
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So here are 15 things I hope I'll never have to do:
1) Take part in 'I'm a celebrity get me out of here' (love watching it tho)
2) Have a divorce.
3) Come across a snake in wilderness
4) Stay a night in a haunted house! I get scared so easily.
5) Have plastic surgery.
6) Pretend I am someone I'm not!
7) Watch my life pass by while sitting in an office.
8) Be forced into doing anything I don't want to e.g. drugs.
9) Be friends with someone who is racist, homophobic or similar.
10) Watch my mum cry because of me!
11) Eat squid. Or an animal's brain.
12) Do the smoothie challenge.
13) Witness a war.
14) Having to deal with Internet hate.
15) Stop doing what I love!
What is on your guys' anti-bucket list? And what is something that you really want to accomplish in your life?
I love reading all your comments, they make me super happy!
Love you lots ♥
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1) Take part in 'I'm a celebrity get me out of here' (love watching it tho)
2) Have a divorce.
3) Come across a snake in wilderness
4) Stay a night in a haunted house! I get scared so easily.
5) Have plastic surgery.
6) Pretend I am someone I'm not!
7) Watch my life pass by while sitting in an office.
8) Be forced into doing anything I don't want to e.g. drugs.
9) Be friends with someone who is racist, homophobic or similar.
10) Watch my mum cry because of me!
11) Eat squid. Or an animal's brain.
12) Do the smoothie challenge.
13) Witness a war.
14) Having to deal with Internet hate.
15) Stop doing what I love!
What is on your guys' anti-bucket list? And what is something that you really want to accomplish in your life?
I love reading all your comments, they make me super happy!
Love you lots ♥
Chat to me on:
https://twitter.com/fashionblogbell
https://www.facebook.com/FashionBlogBell?ref=hl
http://www.bloglovin.com/isabelsantiagoxx
Tuesday, 25 November 2014
Sunday, 23 November 2014
Styling the little black dress
It's a wardrobe staple - the little black dress. This is one of my favourite ways to wear it on a casual occasion.
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| I dyed the tips of my hair red and I'm loving it. Comment if you want to see a post about it! |
Dress: boohoo
Checked shirt: New Look
Leather Jacket: Jessica Simpson
Thigh high socks: TK Maxx
Shoes : New Look
I hope you liked this post, if you did please leave me a comment saying what you would like me to write about next! I love you all very much!
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Wednesday, 19 November 2014
Monday, 17 November 2014
3 Collection products I am loving
I love drugstore makeup. Good quality for a great price. One of my favourite drugstore makeup brands is Collection. At first I was sceptical about it because it is soo incredibly inexpensive and I have made many bad experiences with brands like that. However Collection products are mostly of great quality, considering the price. Recently I have been especially loving three of their products:
Lasting Perfection Concealer
This concealer is nothing new in the world of beauty. I believe every single beauty blogger has talked about it, but I cannot not include it because it really is amazing. It does an amazing job at covering spots, redness or under eye circles and the colour range isn't too bad either. Moreover it does stay on a long time! I have been using this product for absolutely ages, but recently I have been wearing it every single day... I'm yet to find a better concealer.
Extreme 24 hour felt tip liner
I tried this out on my hand in Superdrug a few weeks ago and didn't think much of it as I believed something that cheap won't stay on for long anyway. Well, never judge a book by its cover! In the evening I noticed that the black line was still there. Shocker. This eye liner is easy to use and creates a nice thin line, but it does loose a bit of its blackness after a couple of hours. Still I love this product and would definitely recommend it if you are on a budget.
Lip definer in 5 Damson
Gorgeous colour that looks lovely on. I would recommend wearing it with a lipstick or a lipgloss in a similar dark berry colour as it does fade with time or when you eat. I've been wearing this constantly since it has been getting colder, the colour just screams fall!
Hope you like this kind of post! Let me know what you're favourite products from Collection are :) Love you guys <3
Saturday, 15 November 2014
'Get to know me' tag
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Today I thought it would be nice to do the 21 question tag where I tell you a bit about myself.
I was looking for a tag to do and saw this one on several blogs. In my opinion it is always entertaining to read, so I gave it a go myself.
1. Are you named after anyone?
Not that I know of. My parents were looking for nice baby names in one of those books that gives you hundreds of name suggestions and I guess they just liked the name Isabel. It was a bit of a let down to find out that my name has no special story to it, but I eventually got over it. For my blog I used my nickname "Bell", just because why not.
2. When was the last time you cried?
A few days ago. Sometimes when everything gets too much it just feels good to let it all out. I've been drowning in work recently, especially after missing school due to my operation, so it has all been a bit stressful.
3. Do you have kids?
No, I'm still far too young.
4. If you were another person, would you be a friend of yourself?
That's such a difficult question, I honestly don't know. I hope so, because I want to be all that I value in other people. Realistically tho I think it would take me a while to make friends with myself because I am quite shy in the beginning.
5. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
No who does that?! Joking ;) I use sarcasm all the time, sometimes to the point where my friends can't tell whether I am being serious or not.
6. Will you ever bungee-jump?
It's on my bucket list (if I had one). I'm scared of heights so the thought of it absolutely terrifies me, but I LOVE to challenge myself and see if I can jump over my own shadow.
7. What's your favourite cereal?
Up to a month ago I used to be obsessed with Shreddies, but at the moment I am loving muesli with raisins and nuts.
8. What’s the first thing you notice about people?
They're facial expression. If someone is smiling, I feel a lot more comfortable around them. After that probably eyes, I love looking into people's eyes (sounds a bit creepy). There's just something so personal and unique about someones eyes!
9. What is your eye colour?
Speaking of eyes haha. My eyes are blue.
10. Scary movie or happy endings?
Happy endings! I'm such a coward when it comes to scary movies, I can't watch them. My brain technically knows that it is not real, but I get terrified anyway.
11. Favourite smells?
The sea, cinnamon, vanilla, the air after it has rained.
Winter. Hot drinks, cuddling inside, the excitement for Christmas, Christmas markets, snow and presents. Winter has got it all.
Computer all the way. I barely watch TV anymore, I can do that on my computer. However I do enjoy watching films on TV, especially with friends or family.
14. What’s the furthest you’ve ever been from home?
Probably Bali last summer. I went there with my family, however it wasn't my favourite holiday as I couldn't deal with the incense sticks everywhere and the extreme heat.
15. Do you have any special talents?
Um nothing too exciting. I love drawing and I am good at maths (doesn't mean I enjoy it). I am very sensitive so I can deal with other people's emotions and relate to them quite well.
16. Where were you born?
Germany.
17. What are your hobbies?
Drawing, fashion, shopping, doing makeup, dancing, sport in general, exploring, watching youtubers and a lot more. One of my favourite things to do is write on this blog and take photographs for it.
18. Do you have any pets?
Two cats which I adore! However a year ago I suddenly started getting severe allergic reactions after touching them, so now I have to keep my distance from them. Heartbreaking...
19. Favourite movie?
I am certain there is one which I absolutely adore but can't think of right now. I'll add it when I remember... However I love all Disney movies (FROZEN) and know all songs by heart.
Yes, two sisters. I am the middle child.
21. What do you want to be when you grow up?
Content.
Career wise I am dreaming of being a fashion designer or beauty blogger.
That's all the questions. I hope you enjoyed this kind of post.
I tag everyone who reads this :)
Also I finally got twitter, it would be amazing if you would follow me https://twitter.com/fashionblogbell
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